Client Success Stories

When I was first touched inappropriately I was just 8 or 9 years old. At first, my abuser was really nice to me, complimenting me and saying I was the favorite and how beautiful I was. The sexual abuse lasted about 3 years and happened when we would be at family gatherings. During this time, I couldn’t tell anyone about my life. I couldn’t talk to my mother about how I felt or what was happening. I did not have a good connection with my family members when it came to talking about my personal life. When something upset me, I just never said anything. I argued frequently with my mom and was having difficulty in school. After I disclosed the abuse to my school counselor I was referred to Dawson Place. I was pretty nervous and didn’t know how my mom was going to react.

Dawson Place helped me. I was able to share what happened. It was a nice environment to be around and the staff were nice to me. Since this experience, I am more cautious about being near other people and have a better idea of when people cross my boundaries or try to manipulate me.

About a year and a half after I disclosed my abuse, my cousin told me she had been abused as well. My cousin came to me because she knew I had already been through the whole process of disclosing the abuse. I knew to tell my counselor immediately and get her help through Dawson Place. I’m glad she came to me and was able to tell me.

Now, I have a really good connection with my family. I know I can count on them with anything. I’m doing great in school and am helping to lead the younger grades with online schooling. It is never a kid’s fault and you should tell someone immediately. There are people who will believe you and help you through it. You are not the only one going through it. You are not alone.

When Victoria immigrated to the United States, she did not speak English; she spent her days feeling alone and isolated as she began to learn English in school. While home for many families who have immigrated is a place of comfort, it was not for Victoria. She was sexually abused by her parent, all while living in a home where she had to witness domestic violence.

After working up the courage to share her abuse, she took the first step in ending her abuse and told her mom. The weight of carrying this secret was no longer solely on her shoulders.

It was at this point, her mom turned to Community Health Center that further referred them to Dawson Place. This became a light at the end of the tunnel and began her journey to healing. The pressure of being an immigrant, not speaking the language, and being sexually abuse was a heavy burden to carry. But at Dawson Place she found people who helped her go through each step of the process, reports, interviews, investigations, and therapy. She found a therapist who helped her learn to trust, which allowed her to speak about the abuse experienced, which at the time felt too difficult to talk about. It was hard to talk about what happened and feeling heard was a relief.

Healing is a continued and ongoing process, but now she has a path. She continues her education in high school where she is also in a Medical Assistant Program to someday become a pediatrician to take care of children. Not only can she now speak of her abuse, but she wants to share her experience with others who have experienced abuse, so they know they are not alone. “I think many women don’t know it happens to others and I want them to know they don’t have to keep it to themselves.”

She can find pride in herself in so many ways, through healing, through her education, and through the impact she knows she can have on the world. Empowering others to break the silence and share their story is the first step.

*Names in this story have been changed for the safety and privacy of the client*